Do you remember the first time you had a crush on someone? When you had your puppy love? The innocence of love without anything sexual attached to it. No sexual expectations, no sexual demands, no sex, no lust. Just pure innocent love.

The first time I had a crush on someone was on a family friend. I was about 5 years old at that time and she was at least a decade older than I was. I have got three older cousins in Singapore who are peers…